Summer 2019, I came crawling back home to New Mexico after the dramatic end of my four-year relationship. I had fled the state in 2016, hoping to leave my toxic family and problems behind me in the pursuit of life, only to end up right back at the beginning.

I was 25, broke, and pretty sure I had hit rock bottom.

I hadn’t.

Over the next few years, I would survive sexual violence, become a single mother, and break in more ways than I ever thought possible. Every time things fell apart, I became a different person.

All the Names I’ve Been is a memoir about surviving the unimaginable, overcoming trauma, becoming a mother, finding faith, and learning that home isn’t always a place or a person.

It’s a story about all the women I’ve had to become to get here.

And, surprisingly, it’s a love story about being alive.

Coming December 2026. Pre-orders open November 30.

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